By Jada Matson
Sherman Middle School 7th Grader

The headline is a quote from a song by Lauryn Hill that speaks to me in a special way. Music and art speak to us differently. Music is a way to reach out to a person. Music is a great topic of conversation where you might find commonalities.

Teachers are always trying to figure out how to connect with children. I believe that learning why teens enjoy music should be a requirement of all teachers since for many of us, it’s a huge part of our lives. I enjoy listening to music that sends a message and speaks about certain topics that are not usually discussed in other areas. There are also times where the lyrics of the song aren’t really what makes it powerful, but the beat or the way the song is being rapped or sung is the draw. I’ve always enjoyed listening to songs from other generations, so old-school rap and R&B songs are my favorite since there always seems to be a story and meaning behind them. My mom’s love for Lauryn Hill’s music transferred to me, and that is one way we connect.

In my experience, bringing music into a classroom is one way to help students feel like their teacher is trying to connect with them; it is giving students a choice to share their experience and opinions with music. Music is an art, a poetry that can be complex or effortless, so it’s important that teachers know kids feel this way.

So teachers, here are some ideas of how to connect with your students.

Have an open mind. If a student listens to a song that could be seen as offensive or disrespectful, ask them why they listen to that song. Listen to what they have to say about the song and/or artist.

Share your experience with music. Tell students how music was a part of your life growing up. Tell them your favorite genre of music and why.

These ideas apply to any adult who wants to make connections with teens. Considering how teens experience music could really enhance relationships and create real connections.